Urgent medical and married spouse caret help
Dear Sir or Madam,
After deterioration of health, that appears to be a risk to my life, I’m seeking help from the general public; I’ve always been a hard-working go-getter and a teacher. I currently live with my married partner my husband Mr Malhotra Jones, we have been discriminated by Bury town hall in refusal of helping us after a major operation I need something to go, and I have reached out to the home office to seek that my none UK married spouse, can join me in the UK as my sole carer. Please please please help make this possible for us.. and I love him to bits, but the situation has made him impossible for us to return so you can get life-saving treatment and help us live together.
Best wishes, Mr. and Mr. Malhotra Jones.
My name is Nicholas Jones, British Citizen and originally from Manchester UK. I have been living abroad on and off for several years when I could get teacher work or travel outside in the season with regular visits back to Manchester. I had met my now married husband Rahul Malhotra (Indian Citizen) when I met him when I was working there as an English teacher in Mumbai. He has been to the UK on several occasions with me, met my relatives and we had a fantastic wedding in June 2024 with so many family members and friends. Our life on the outset looked planned out; work hard abroad, save money, use our money to apply for him to have spouse citizenship and buy a house together. We were going to do this legally and both contribute so much back to the UK. We went to China and I had a career in teaching; we were very happy and the HR was helping him to get a spouse visa there whilst I worked in spite of their gay marriage laws, it would have been possible. However, tragedy strikes when he went back to India to celebrate Diwali, and I went to Cambodia for a short holiday (hence going our separate ways so he could be with his family and I could be a traveler on my off time). Once night, I just got back to the hotel; I was having a cigarette on the balcony, and lent against the post of the balcony, and I fell down 5 floors. Somehow, I survived the fall but broke 6 bones and damaged my nerves in my elbow and hands (broke femur, elbow, feet and toes). I was in hospital in Cambodia and as soon as their public hospital realized I had insurance they stopped treating me (wanted cash up front), my spouse left India and flew to my aide to be with me, and I managed to survive 16 hours on my own in the public hospital and got a private hospital to get an ambulance to get me and take me for adequate care. This meant I had a 12 hour operation; rods and screws put in my arm and legs, and it was also very costly. Although my school had insurance, I still had to pay towards it, but with him by my side we were not going to let it break us. I stayed in the hospital for 6 weeks, when I was fit I flew back to China. Since, December 2024 to the present time; my spouse has been my soul carer; doing so much for me, attending Physio/medical appointments , helping me walk at times, cook for me, clean for me, help me with the medication I still take (medication is for physical health and some PTSD such as oxycodone, pregabalin and lorazepam). Although, I had this going on I was adamant I would still work; keep my visa situation here, and provide for us, so I got a teaching job elsewhere as my last job had to let me go, and I was committed we would make our dream of living in the UK come true. Moreover, whilst the weeks went on I would still get drained, wracked in pain, suffer with flash backs, be off sick sometimes, and then one day a screw came out of my elbow. I went to a Chinese hospital (January 2025) and they said I needed a secondary operation to put a plate in as my elbow failed to heal. Again, a few weeks later I was back in work, I am usually a strong person, and so I fought through the pain, and did well at work. I couldn't have done it without my spouse being there by my side all the time. I was happy to be in work to keep my mind off it; I love teaching, and the parents and children loved me being there. However, it becomes June (2025), I get invited to the office with my HR; I thought it was going to be the promotion they discussed earlier with me, however it was very different, they noticed I was still in pain at times, struggling with doing stay late after work, and some new parents noticed my limp and shortness of breath. I was convinced to resign with a positive recommendation letter but on terms of my ill health. Again, my spouse lifted me up as tears filled my eyes, but typical Manchester me started looking for jobs, applying, and getting interviews out there. As our typical day of Monday comes up for me to take a medication refill with the neurologist; my spouse recommends me to go see the specialist Orthopaedic; he mentions after hospital tests and X-rays; my leg has relapsed, breaking down, my bone on one side has disappeared, I need to stay in hospital for 3-4 weeks, they may need to re-operate due to a suspected infection and other reasons, it can be dangerous to my life. Also that my elbow may be infected and also need some tests done to it. I mention to my spouse how much easier it would be to return to the UK; have access to NHS health care, possibly apply for help which they don't have in China or India. I feel I really need your help; we want to apply for a spouse or indefinite leave to remain for him to join me in the UK as my sole carer (we are married and he takes great care of me). I don't have family to stay with in the UK, and I can't afford the spouse visas and meet the criteria to help him in this way. Please can you assist me with allowing him to be a rare exception and on medical grounds to be my carer and my number 1 family support to join me living in the UK. I do want to come back home, make sure my life is not at risk but not do it alone. I am very desperate and want to know can you help us as I have no other options left. I can provide you with medical evidences, our relationship certificate and the termination letter. Ive honestly tried. my best and we had so much going for us, but I really can't do this alone. The great things about Indian spouses and my family in-laws are the following; In Indian Indians by your side, Stay by your side, In it with you, Out of it with you, Feed you, Cry with you, Laugh with you, Defend you, Tell you the truth when you need to hear it, love you, Walk with you run with you, Talk to you, Reassure you, Hold your hand when you’re scared, Hold your hand when you laugh together, And when you are in the community, they never ever ever a dream of leaving you and much more. I don’t know what I would’ve done if it wasn’t for this guy. I just need help from my country on life to death medical grounds. Please see the proof of the accident below on the link Thanks for your consideration. Nicholas Jones
https://metro.co.uk/2024/12/08/teacher-plummeted-50-feet-onto-concrete-sustained-minor-injuries-22145388/
