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Hello Everyone,
My name is Pratik. I am 31 years old and currently working as an SDR to support myself and my family. I come from a hardworking family background, and throughout my life I have always tried to help others whenever I could, even during difficult times.
Unfortunately, the last few years have been extremely challenging for me and my family. My father battled heart disease and cancer for nearly 22 years, and during that time, our entire family savings were exhausted on medical treatments and hospital expenses. Shortly after, I lost my job and was left with almost nothing financially.
During that difficult period, I went through severe emotional stress, family crises, anxiety, and depression. In one of the darkest phases of my life, I completely lost hope and even attempted to end my life. I came dangerously close to losing everything, but when I saw the pain and helplessness in my parents’ eyes, I realized that giving up could never be an option. That moment changed something inside me. I decided that no matter how difficult life became, I had to keep fighting for the people who loved and depended on me.
In a very weak phase emotionally, I turned to alcohol as a coping mechanism, which badly affected my health and damaged my liver. I was hospitalized and bedridden for almost a year, during which I had no income at all.
Just as I started recovering physically and rebuilding my life, I faced another heartbreaking situation when my marriage fell apart after discovering infidelity. Soon after that, I lost my father, and within a month my mother met with a serious accident that required a hip replacement surgery. Around the same time, I also realized that I had been financially cheated by a few people I trusted deeply.
Despite everything, life gave me hope again when I met someone who stood beside me during my darkest moments. She supported me emotionally, encouraged me to rebuild myself, and gave me strength when I had almost given up. We planned to get married, but the financial pressure, debts, and constant harassment from lenders created immense stress in our lives. Recently, we had to separate, and it has been one of the hardest experiences I have ever faced.
Today, I live with my mother and continue to work hard every day, but I am still drowning in debt. My greatest wish is to rebuild my life, clear these financial burdens, take care of my mother properly, and become stable enough to bring happiness and security back into my life and the life of the person I love.
I have never been someone who easily asks for help. I always believed in solving my own problems and working my way through hardship. But after years of setbacks, medical emergencies, emotional loss, and financial struggles, I have reached a point where I genuinely cannot do this alone anymore.
Why I Need Your Help
The purpose of this fundraiser is to help me reduce the debts and financial burdens that have accumulated over the years due to medical emergencies, unemployment, and survival expenses.
I am currently employed, but most of my monthly salary goes directly toward loan repayments and minimum payments, leaving very little for basic living expenses and my mother’s care. My monthly income is approximately $1200 and I take a few extra work to meet my ends but that income is very unsure as I might get extra work sometimes and sometime not, and despite working continuously, I have been unable to escape this cycle of debt.
The funds raised will help me:
• Pay down urgent debts and high-interest loans
• Support my mother’s medical and daily needs
• Stabilize my finances and avoid further harassment from lenders
• Build a basic emergency cushion for future unexpected expenses
• Regain mental peace and focus on rebuilding my life responsibly
This is not about luxury or comfort. It is simply about getting one fair chance to breathe again and stand on my feet with dignity.
I also want to be fully transparent with everyone reading this. I may post this fundraiser on one or two additional platforms as well — not because I am trying to mislead anyone, but because I am trying to reach my goal faster and reduce the financial pressure as soon as possible. The moment I reach my required goal, I will immediately close all active campaigns.
I understand that online fundraising can make people cautious, and rightly so. That is why I want to clearly say that although I may be struggling, helpless, and going through one of the worst phases of my life, I am not a liar or a fraud. I am simply someone trying very hard to survive, rebuild, and protect the little family I have left. I am also willing to provide supporting documents for the medical situations and hardships I have mentioned.
How You Can Help
If you are in a position to support me, no contribution is too small. Every single donation — whether it is $5, $20, or more — will bring me one step closer to stability and recovery.
If you are unable to donate, I completely understand. Even sharing this fundraiser with others would mean more to me than words can express.
I truly believe that if I am given this second chance, I will rebuild my life with honesty, gratitude, and purpose. One day, I hope to be in a position where I can help others who are struggling, just as I am today.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story and for considering helping me during the most difficult phase of my life.
With sincere gratitude,
Pratik
